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Families and Philanthropy

Many families are interested in teaching their children the value of giving, but they don't always know the best way to do it. As parents we may give our children many examples of “giving and serving” but forget to talk with them about it. This is what helps children understand with their head what they feel in their heart.

Not only is giving time and talent important, so is teaching our children the value of giving their money to causes they care about. They can learn this at a young age and begin to develop a generous spirit and philanthropic habit of their heart.

According to Susan Crites Price, author of The Giving Family: Raising Our Children to Help Others (Council on Foundations, 2001), it's important to start young since habits of giving start young. Here are a few recommendations based on her book:

• Make giving the rule, rather than the exception. "We make kids brush their teeth because it's good for them. We also need to make them give and serve -- because that's good for them too.
• Show and tell. "While kids may see us volunteering and writing checks to causes we care about, we should also tell them why we are doing it."
• Let them lead. "If we let children decide for themselves how to give their time or their money, they are more likely to enjoy it." It's good to give them ideas, of course, but better to let them choose.
• Find volunteer projects. There are plenty of places to volunteer -- schools, community groups, religious organizations, clubs, and more. Try www.helpindyonline.com.
• Tie it to something they can see. It makes a better impression when you show kids what they're giving to, and why.
• Consider ways to give more. While no donation is too small, some parents will match what their child wants to give, sending the charity a more meaningful amount.
• Save, spend and give . If children get an allowance, make sure they learn how to save, spend and give a portion of their money away to causes that are important to them.
• Take the time to do it. Kids and parents are busy people. "Be intentional about the family giving," Price recommends. "Make time for it. Make it a priority."

Resources:

 The Giving Family: Raising Our Children to Help Others

by Susan Crites Price, (Council on Foundations, 2001), The Giving Family is an easily read resource that offers parents numerous family activities to teach children of any age the about giving their time, talent and treasure for the good of a community. The book also tells inspiring stories of children who have grown up giving to others as a family value and the difference it makes in a community.

Raising Charitable Children

An easy-to-read, how-to guide to introduce children of all ages to charity and volunteering, Raising Charitable Children is packed with practical advice and inspirational, real life stories of friends and family who have made philanthropy a fun rewarding part of a child’s life. For more information go to http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Charitable-Children-Carol-Weisman/dp/09767
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